As winter approaches and the days grow shorter, it’s natural for our kiddos to feel a little less excited about leaving the house. Let’s be honest, even as adults, we all know that feeling of waking up on a chilly morning and pressing the snooze button just to enjoy the warmth of the sheets a little longer. It’s not that we aren’t ready for our day ahead, we just wish we could stay cozy for a bit more! The same goes for our kiddos! Rest assured they love dance, sports, cheer & everything else, before the whirlwind begins, they just want to be warm and snuggled up at home instead of braving the dark/cold.
After doing this for over 20 years, I’ve fielded many panicked phone calls from mamas whose little ones are giving them a tough time getting to class, but absolutely LOVE it once they get in there. Being a mom of 3, I have come to affectionately call this “the ballet blues.” While it’s common for young dancers to feel less enthusiastic when the weather turns cold, this period also offers an important lesson in perseverance and commitment—skills that extend far beyond the studio and all the other activities. It teaches them to adapt to changing conditions and reminds them that our bodies still need to move, even in the winter months!
Here are some signs to watch for if you’re wondering whether your child is truly not enjoying the activity or if they’re just feeling the winter blues. Remember 20 years and 3 kids… I have experienced it all!
1) When their teacher mentions they don’t seem to enjoy it any more.
2) After an exciting event like recital, showcase week, a big game, or the playoffs, they express wanting to take a break.
3) If they continue to express disinterest beyond the usual “blues” period.
I can’t help you with all the other activities but I can certainly help with dance❤️. If your dancer is navigating this seasonal transition, the power of praise and positive language can help them push through. Here are some supportive phrases you can use to keep them motivated:
– “If we always quit when we don’t “want” to do something then we miss out on some of the excitement we do want to do…like recital!”
– “I see how hard you’re working, especially as the weather changes. I’m proud of your effort!”
– “It’s okay to feel frustrated when there are things we don’t want to do when the cold and shorter days make it harder to get moving. Remember, the magic is still doing them so that you can celebrate your accomplishments.”
– “If we stop now, when it get’s warm again we’ll have wished we stuck it out. Let’s try to trooper through the cold to get celebrating together.
– “You’re learning important skills that will help you succeed—even when you are an adult like me!”
They are little(yes, even our teens) and transition is hard! Let’s celebrate every step forward, no matter how small, because those are the moments that help build character and resilience for the future! From my mama heart to yours-
Much Love,
Miss Jennifer
