As we transition back into the swing of ALL the things, one feeling we parents can’t seem to escape is PRESSURE. The pressure to get the times right, be in all the places, remember each activity’s policies, needs, and schedules. On top of that, we’re juggling school open houses, shifting calendars, and trying not to forget that we’re human—one person, worthy of a little care in the hustle of each day.
So, as the first few weeks of chaos start to trend into winding down, here are a few things to look forward to if we take a moment to breathe:
- All new things take time. This schedule, this grade, this moment—it’s all brand new. Before we judge ourselves or others, let’s live in a space of grace. Give yourself time to find a rhythm, and give your children the same patience to adjust. Have patience long enough, and this feeling shall pass 🙂
- New doesn’t always feel exciting at first. It’s our job to encourage the mindset that new can feel scary and overwhelming, but once we push through, new is what helps us grow into better and brighter versions of ourselves. And I’ll tell you the same thing I tell your kiddos—I wish you could see yourselves in the light that I see you when you drop off, pick up, or sit for a minute in the waiting room, just gathering your thoughts. I see superhero capes around every parent. 💙
- Seven is the magic number. It takes about seven tries, or weeks, to fully understand or settle into something for the first time. This goes for dance classes too! Seven weeks to really connect with your new teacher, adjust to class transitions, and get used to the new group of peers along with all the other NEW happenings in life at the same time, might we add 🙂 Patience and grace go a long way!
The bottom line? If we stick out the chaos long enough, it becomes consistency. If we stick with consistency long enough, it becomes confidence. And when we stand tall on that confidence, that’s when we become champions.
Of course, your kiddos are champs, and they’ll hear that in class—but I’m here to tell you, SO ARE YOU. Remember: seven. You’ve got this. Soon, no one will handle your schedule better than you! And while you’re busy taking care of everyone else do me a favor, please don’t forget about YOU.
How we model these moments is how our children will, too. Let’s show them how true champions do it.
